Dating Over 50

Top Dating Tips

© Debbie DeSpirt

Courting tips to achieve success in dating.

Entering the dating arena after 50 can be an exciting and stressful experience. Bringing the mystery of Feng Shui to your home is a good dating advice tip. Feng Shui is the ancient art of placement that creates an environment to be aligned with your life goals.

Good Dating Tips

Remove memories of your past love from your bedroom. Give the clothes to charity. Often this is a difficult task regardless of the circumstances. As you give the garments to charity, imagine the generosity of you and your partner are giving to someone else.

Get rid of all the clothing your ex love gave you if it brings back moments of the past. You are living in the present and there is no reason to keep returning to the past as you dress each morning.

Remove all bed linen and if possible buy a new bed. Redecorate your room. The old style was for you and your ex partner, now is the time to decorate for yourself.

Clean everything, under the bed, each drawer and all the crooks and crannies in the bedroom. Leave no area unturned.

After you have cleaned the room, let it sit for a couple of hours before you redecorate. Take a bath during this time to cleanse yourself of the past energies in the room. You want clarity as you decorate your bedroom for the present.

Remove all photos of your ex partner in the room. Keep the photos in family albums or a special one of someone to remember in the living room. No photos of your loves in the bedroom. This is your retreat to cleanse the body and soul. As well, no photos of your grand kids or kids allowed in the bedroom. Do you want to always see their faces before you embark on a new relationship.

After the room, is cleared of the past it is time to bring in the future.

Dating Over 50: Feng Shui Cures

Decorate your bedroom in soft natural colors of greens and blues. Both colors are healing and green is the other color of love.

Accent with images of love. The images can be abstract or reality. The images should be of couple love.

Leave a drawer and some room in the closet empty to allow a new love to enter your life. This does not mean the person will be sharing your bed, it just means you are open to a new relationship and have found room for them in your heart.

Place 2 decorative pillows, or two similar ornaments on your night side table to represent you and your new partner. The objects are only representations so chose according to your personal style and beliefs. With that said be aware of the objects you choose. Two silver praying mantis are not ideal since the female eats the male, also do not choose an animal that dominates the female or male. Mandarin ducks are a popular Feng Shui cure for dating because these ducks are loyal for life.

As you redecorate your bedroom make it soft and romantic. Fill it with items you love.

Dating Over 50: Love Meditation

Lay on your bed and close your eyes. Relax all the muscles in your body and just be.

As you lay quietly envision the type of relationship you desire. See yourself on the beach or out shopping with your new partner. Imagine every detail and try to use as many senses as you can.

Each night do the love meditation to bring a partner into your life.

Believe it and you will receive it.


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